When Hannah was born, co-sleeping wasn't something I had planned on doing... but in those early weeks, it was much simpler to have her in the bed with me during the night (even though I didn't breastfeed her). Once she started sleeping through the night, we moved her from the bassinet beside our bed into her crib. Most nights she would start out going to sleep in her crib, but when she woke in the wee hours of the morning, I'd grab her and a bottle and bring both back to bed with me. After she had finished her early morning feeding, we'd snuggle close and go back to sleep for awhile. And I cherished having her so close to me...
I continued this routine with her until she was about 15 months old... we found out I was pregnant again and there wasn't going to be enough room in our little full-sized bed for Hannah, Shane and me (plus my expanding belly). But convincing Hannah to sleep the whole night in her crib was easier said than done.
We tried everything to get her to sleep in her crib. Letting her "cry it out"... using the Ferber method of going into her room at increased intervals... sleeping on the floor of her room beside the crib... nothing worked.
Finally, when Hannah was about 18 or 19 months old, we took away her crib and replaced it with a twin bed. Shane or I would lay down with Hannah when it was time for her to go to bed... and she stayed asleep the entire night. I don't know what it was about the twin bed that worked... but we were just so thankful it did!
So when Michaela came along, I was absolutely, positively, 100% certain this child would NOT co-sleep with us. No way, no how. She did sleep in a bassinet beside our bed for the first few weeks... and the transition from the bassinet to the crib was seamless! Praise be, or I think I would've gone barking mad...
And with the way this child sleeps, it's a good thing she was never in the bed with me...
How is that even comfortable?!